Very Beautiful Hadith and Forgiveness in Islam

On the authority of Anas, who said: I heard the messenger of Allah say:
Allah the Almighty has said: “O son of Adam, so long as you call upon Me and ask of Me, I shall forgive you for what you have done, and I shall not mind. O son of Adam, were your sins to reach the clouds of the sky and were you then to ask forgiveness of Me, I would forgive you. O son of Adam, were you to come to Me with sins nearly as great as the earth and were you then to face Me, ascribing no partner to Me, I would bring you forgiveness nearly as great as its.”


To receive forgiveness from God there are three requirements:
Recognizing the offense itself and its admission before God.
Making a commitment not to repeat the offense.
Asking for forgiveness from God.
If the offense was committed against another human being, or against society, a fourth condition is added:
Recognizing the offense before those against whom offense was committed and before God.
Committing oneself not to repeat the offense.
Doing whatever needs to be done to rectify the offense (within reason) and asking pardon of the offended party.
Asking God for forgiveness.
There are no particular words to say for asking forgiveness. However, Muslims are taught many phrases and words to keep repeating daily asking God’s forgiveness. For example:
Astaghfiru-Allah, “I ask forgiveness from Allah”
Subhanaka-Allah humma wa bi hamdika wa ash-hadu al la Ilaha illa Anta astaghfiruka wa atubu ilayk, “Glory be to You, Allah, and with You Praise (thanks) and I bear witness that there is no deity but You, I ask Your forgiveness and I return to You (in obedience)”.

Cloud No.9

clue number one was when you knocked on my door
clue number two was the look that you wore
n' that's when i knew it was a pretty good sign
that something was wrong up on cloud number nine

well it's a long way up and we won't come down tonight
well it may be wrong but baby it sure feels right

and the moon is out and the stars are bright
and whatever comes s'gonna be alright
cause tonight you will be mine - up on cloud number nine
and there ain't no place that i'd rather be
and we can't go back but you're here with me
yeah, the weather is really fine - up on cloud number nine

now he hurt you and you hurt me
and that wasn't the way it was supposed to be
so baby tonight let's leave the world behind
and spend some time up on cloud number nine

well it's a long way up and we won't come down tonight
well it may be wrong but baby it sure feels right

well we won't come down tonight
ya we won't come down tonight
no we won't come down tonight

we can watch the world go by - up on cloud number nine

Why is 15 August celebrated as The BLACK Day & not as The INDEPENDENCE Day

Ask a mother who lost her son.Ask a wife who lost her husband.Ask a child who lost his father.Ask a sister who lost her brother.Ask a youth who lost his friend.They don't have a reason to love the country they belong to.

As India celebrates its 65 years of independence and The Prime Minister unfolds the flag with a promise that his government intents on fighting corruption.He says our country has achieved much, traveled rapidly on the path of development and achieved success in many areas. However, I am also well aware that a lot remains to be done. We have to banish poverty and illiteracy from our country. We have to provide the common man with access to improved health services. We have to provide employment opportunities to each one of our youth.And yet he forgets what is to be done for Kashmir which doesn't cry because of poverty, illiteracy.It's pain is much greater than all of these.

Kashmir cries for peace,its recognition all over the world as a part of the country and not be treated as terrorist or being a cause of terrorism worldwide,We all agree that there are human rights violations in Kashmir?I would like to ask our rulers that take so much responsibility in ruling us-Are not you and your political colleagues yet satisfied with a thousands of people killed?

Kashmir issue: we have lost nearly 100 thousand lives, hundreds of our sisters & mothers have been molested, thousands exiled and thousands are missing. What is the solution?When they fail to provide us with a solution the youth have a solution.

This is the reason today every youth is on street demanding AZADI.We always have been betrayed by the Government of India which failed to fulfill it's promises.We protest as a strategy by which we assert the demand of the right of self-determination.
We aren't killing the innocent souls.We aren't responsible of any uncertainty in INDIA or anywhere in the WORLD-then why are we always THE SUSPECTS.Kashmiri youth living in a so called democratic country India- why is he deployed of his rights?Even the simple rights he used to enjoy have been snatched away-Gag On SMS Services,Crackdown On E-Protestors etc.He has to suffer everyday.He has been suppressed always and will continue to if our leaders continue not paying heeds to their sufferings.

As a kid I use to be proud of my country,used to watch the Independence celebration with great enthusiasm but now I just don't care and like me every youth of Kashmir doesn't care and celebrate the day as THE BLACK DAY.We don't feel to be part of the country that doesn't consider us to be its part though it keeps on declaring us to be its integral part.

We have been traumatized and thus we don't want to be a part of India or Pakistan - we just want freedom-We want our own identity as was promised to us-we want KASHMIR to live and progress.We dont want to be suppressed or ruled over.We want PEACE.
We demand a new KASHMIR -A Better One

Why is it so hard to forget the person who hurt us most, escpecially when its the one whom we loved the most?

“Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it’s better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting them back together.”


Knowing how to let go of someone you love is tough, but you’re not alone if you’re holding on to the past! It’s hard to let go.Because the more we care, the greater our expectations, and the greater the disappointment if those expectations aren't met. How can we ever forget the ones we've loved the most? They became part of us, so forgetting them would be denying a part of who we are.Sometimes it’s worse (in the long run) to try to get back together. Sometimes you need to keep forging ahead, and learn to survive heartbreak.

How to Let Go of Someone You Love

Remember both the good and the bad parts of the relationship

When you’ve lost someone you love, it’s easy to focus on the great parts of your relationship and life together. But, there was a reason you broke up — maybe even several reasons! Don’t ignore the “bad” parts of the relationship and idealize the best parts…instead, keep reminding yourself that you’re letting go of the past because holding on to it isn’t good for you.

Accept that your loss may always hurt or confuse you

Some things, we never ever get over — but we can still live full, rewarding lives and achieve our goals! Part of letting go of someone you love is accepthing that you may never have all the answers.

Rebuild yourself

Your losses, heartbreaks, setbacks, and disappointments have made you a different person — a better, more unique, more compassionate person! Instead of mourning what was or what could have been, start something new in your life. Think about what goals you should set for your life. Volunteer, take a solo vacation, join a new gym,join a support group, check out a new social club, quit your job, and set new life goals. Rebuild your life — set new life goals.

Accept your lack of control over other people

No matter how “good”, smart, helpful, giving, or attractive you are, you can’t control other people. If they leave you, they have their reasons…and sometimes those reasons have nothing to do with you. The sooner you accept your lack of control, the easier it’ll be to let go of someone you love.

Remember that letting go of love doesn’t happen overnight

Letting go of the past isn’t something you do once – and poof! You’re free, healed, and happy! Rather, letting go is a journey peppered with steps forward and steps backward, good days and bad days. I grew up with time and keep on learning new things as I proceed in my life.I learned how to love, let go, and open my heart to love again. And I’ve survived those heart-wrenching, gut-twisting breakups that slam you to the ground and rip you to pieces. Letting go is a process that takes time.Keeping hope alive is what one needs so BEST OF LUCK :)

About Love And Romantic Love

Love is mostly tender and quiet.Love is a light that allows people to see things that are not seen by others.Romantic love is a deep emotional, sexual and spiritual recognition and regard for the value of another person and relationship.

Most people never learn how to sustain a loving relationship. The reason is simple. Nobody showed them. The mere fact that a man and woman feel love toward each other does not guarantee they will be able to create a joyful and rewarding life. Love does not automatically teach a person communication skills. Love does not teach a person how to resolve a conflict. Love does not teach people how to weave their love into the rest of their life.

For most people who fall in love, a time will come when they sense the beginning of problems. They know that romantic love can produce great joy and happiness. But with time, they begin to feel more alone. They experience self-doubt and they feel the consequence of their unmet needs. They begin to see the other person more like they truly are and not what they needed them to be. They usually begin to find faults in others and they may become jealous, angry, bitter, sarcastic or cynical. Many will separate or remain together in misery. They will often have children and try to raise a family in an effort to revive the relationship or to feel better. Many will have an affair. When they separate or divorce, some will get involved in another relationship too quickly. They try to find some way to ease the pain. They idealize this new person in their life and the cycle starts over. They say to themselves, "I'll never be hurt like that again.

The exact origin of the desire to love is difficult to comprehend, but can be appreciated in many ways.

When a man and woman encounter each other in midst of love they seek intimate contact. In a general sense, love is a response to something we intimately value. Romantic love is the experience of joy in the presence of a loved one, joy in being close to a loved one, and joy in our interaction with a loved one.

Someone we love enters the room. Our eyes and heart light up. We look at this person. We feel a growing feeling of joy within us. We reach out and touch their hand. We feel happy and fulfilled.

I believe we all have a profound need to find things in the world we care about and feel inspired by.

Life is worthwhile - at any age - when we find something worth pursuing.


From the moment of birth we begin looking for lights that will brighten our journey, provide us with purpose and meaning, and make our struggle worthwhile.

It is here that we can begin to understand another important expression of romantic love.

Romantic love is a powerful way to express our capacity to love and to be loved. It is a way to focus our energy, our curiosity, and our desire for adventure. Romantic love is a source of pleasure and inspiration and is worth pursuing. Romantic love is a blessing of life. Romantic love confirms our lovable and capable nature.

When we encounter a person who thinks as we do, and notices what we do, and values what we do, we experience a strong feeling of contact with that person.

In loving you, I see in you a part of me that is also you.. I also see in you something that is really me. And there is you, a person of many qualities-- a person who is a mystery-- a person I am drawn to.

All life - by it's very nature - entails a possibility of defeat. Because of this, we find pleasure and reassurance in the expression of life. Sharing our life and participating in life is reassuring that life is possible. Romantic love is an intense sharing and reassurance that life is possible

Romantic love is a deep emotional, sexual and spiritual recognition and regard for the value of another person and relationship.Romantic love is based on shared sight and is shaped by happiness. Immature love is based on shared blindness, and is merely a fortress against pain.

Romantic love is a sanctuary, and a source of nourishment and energy. Sometimes romantic love is the only point of certainty, and the only thing that is solid and real in the midst of chaos and ambiguity.

Vs
Fascination, attraction, or passion may be born "at first sight". But love requires curiosity, patience, acceptance and seeing people for who they truly are. This usually takes time.

The light of love,Shines ever bright.Even through the darkest night.
When all else fails, It finds a way to survive Day by day.

Gentle natured In tough times,Love grows tougher As it shines.

And in the end,Love won't bend.
Thus, true love Is sure to win.

All that I am, or hope to be, I owe to you MAMA.

For all the things I didn't say,
About how I felt along the way--
For the love you gave and the work you've done,
Here's appreciation from your loving daughter,
You cared for me as a little tot,
When all I did was cry a lot,
And as I grew your work did too--
I ran and fell and got black and blue.
I grew some more and it didn't stop;
Now you had to become a cop,
To worry about mistakes I'd make;
You kept me in line for my own sake.
I got older, and the story repeated;
You were always there whenever I needed.
You guided me and wished me the best,
I became wiser and knew I was blessed.
So, for all the times I didn't say,
The love I felt for you each day,
Mom,I wish you to read this so you can always see
Just how much you mean to me.
Mom, Thanks for everything!

MC Kash Live At OYK 2011 - The Best Experience

Love Story - All time favorite

We were both young, when I first saw you.
I close my eyes and the flashback starts-
I'm standing there, on a balcony in summer air.

I see the lights; see the party, the ball gowns.
I see you make your way through the crowd-
You say hello, little did I know...

That you were Romeo, you were throwing pebbles-
And my daddy said "stay away from Juliet"-
And I was crying on the staircase-
begging you, "Please don't go..."
And I said...

Romeo take me somewhere, we can be alone.
I'll be waiting; all there's left to do is run.
You'll be the prince and I'll be the princess,
It's a love story, baby, just say yes.

So I sneak out to the garden to see you.
We keep quiet, because we're dead if they knew-
So close your eyes... escape this town for a little while.
Oh, Oh.

Cause you were Romeo - I was a scarlet letter,
And my daddy said "stay away from Juliet" -
but you were everything to me-
I was begging you, "Please don't go"
And I said...

Romeo take me somewhere, we can be alone.
I'll be waiting; all there's left to do is run.
You'll be the prince and I'll be the princess.
It's a love story, baby, just say yes-

Romeo save me, they're trying to tell me how to feel.
This love is difficult, but it's real.
Don't be afraid, we'll make it out of this mess.
It's a love story, baby, just say yes.
Oh, Oh.

I got tired of waiting.
Wondering if you were ever coming around.
My faith in you was fading-
When I met you on the outskirts of town.
And I said...

Romeo save me, I've been feeling so alone.
I keep waiting, for you but you never come.
Is this in my head, I don't know what to think-
He knelt to the ground and pulled out a ring and said...

Marry me Juliet, you'll never have to be alone.
I love you, and that's all I really know.
I talked to your dad -- go pick out a white dress
It's a love story, baby just say... yes.
Oh, Oh, Oh, Oh, Oh.

'cause we were both young when I first saw you

BACKSTREET BOYS - Back To Your Heart

It's not I can't live without you
It's just that I don't even want to try
Every night I dream about you
Ever since the day we said goodbye
If I wasn't such a fool
Right now I'd be holding you
There's nothin' that I wouldn't do
Baby if I only knew

The words to say
The road to take
To find a way back to your heart
What can I do
To get to you
And find a way back to your heart

I don't know how it got so crazy
But I'll do anything to set things right
'Cause your love is so amazing
Baby you're the best thing in my life.
Let me prove my love is real
And made you feel the way I feel
I promise I would give the world
If only you would tell me girl

Give me one more chance
To give my love to you
'Cause no one on this Earth
Loves you like I do
Tell me

These arms of mine
Are open wide
From now until the end of time
You are my world
What can I do?
It's hard to find
A way back to your Heart

I wanna grow old with you - WESTLIFE

Another day
Without your smile
Another day just passes by
But now I know
How much it means
For you to stay
Right here with me

The time we spent apart will make our love grow stronger
But it hurt so bad I can't take it any longer

I wanna grow old with you
I wanna die lying in your arms
I wanna grow old with you
I wanna be looking in your eyes
I wanna be there for you
Sharing everything you do
I wanna grow old with you

A thousand miles between us now
It causes me to wonder how
Our love tonight remains so strong
It makes our risk right all along

The time we spent apart will make our love grow stronger
But it hurt so bad I can't take it any longer

I wanna grow old with you
I wanna die lying in your arms
I wanna grow old with you
I wanna be looking in your eyes
I wanna be there for you
Sharing everything you do
I wanna grow old with you

Things can come and go I know but
Baby I believe
Something's burning strong between us
Makes it clear to me

I wanna grow old with you
I wanna die lying in your arms
I wanna grow old with you
I wanna be looking in your eyes
I wanna be there for you
Sharing everything you do
I wanna grow old with you

Chairlift - Bruises

I tried to do handstands for you
I tried to do headstands for you
Everytime I fell on you, yeah, everytime I fell
I tried to do handstands for you
But everytime I fell for you
I'm permanently black and blue, permanently blue for you.

I tried to do handstands for you
I tried to do handstands for you
Everytime I fell on you, yeah, everytime I fell
I tried to do handstands for you but everytime I fell for you
I'm permanently black and blue, permanently blue for you-ooh-ooh-ooh

For you-ooh-ooh-ooh
So black and blue-ooh-ooh-ooh
For you-ooh-ooh-ooh.

I grabbed some frozen strawberries so I could ice your bruising knees
But frozen things they all unfreeze and now I taste like....
All those frozen strawberries I used to chill your bruising knees,
Hot July ain't good to me
I'm pink and black and blue for you.

I got bruises on my knees for you
And grass stains on my knees for you
Got holes in my new jeans for you
Got pink and black and blue

Got bruises on my knees for you
And grass stains on my knees for you
Got holes in my new jeans for you
Got pink and black and blue for you-ooh-ooh-ooh

For you-ooh-ooh-ooh
So black and blue-ooh-ooh-ooh
For you-ooh-ooh-ooh

Do-doo-do-do-do-do-doo
Do-doo-do-do-do-do-doo
Do-doo-do-do-do-do-doo
Do-doo-do-do-do-do-doo
Do-doo-do-do-do-do-doo
Do-doo-do-do-do-do-doo
Do-doo-do-do-do-do-doo

Forever Love

TRUE LOVE NEVER DIES.IT JUST GETS STRONGER WITH TIME

Often we say goodbye to the person we love without wanting to. Though that doesn't mean that we've stopped loving them or we've stopped to care. So uncertain about the future we just drift away, promise each time to stay away not because we want to but because we do it for that person only whom we love.

But what I feel is if you have feelings for someone they never completely go away. So yes I believe there is a very good chance of getting back together and working out. It just takes time and patience from both sides. Don't rush things, take it slow and work on bettering yourself and being a happy person. Working on communication is the most vital part of any relationship. Just let things unfold and only time will tell if it is meant to be or not.

Love is the best thing that can happen to someone. It can cross all boundaries and defeat all hurdles. Love is like a magic that never seems to leave you. On several occasions you may have been asked or may have asked yourself why you love him/her. Your heart may cry out several reasons, but your lips are often silent.

When we fall in love with someone, we enjoy and love to be in the company of that person, as the bright sunrays of love come through that person’s soul and we feel abundant joy. It bestows a great blessing on us, when we receive pure love from another person. This kind of ‘perfect love’ makes us to realize the goodness, the preciousness and beauty in our soul nature. One realizes the experience of ‘perfect love’ when our soul is beyond the qualities of our personality traits such as anger, ego, jealousy, hatred and mistrust. When our mind is not full of negative personality traits, we don’t encounter any problems in our relations.

In relationships, we constantly face times when the sun of ‘perfect love’ shines brightly in the clear sky and then dark clouds covers this blissful sun by the negative traits of our human nature. So, the sky is infinite and we know that the clouds can’t cover the sun forever. Similarly, if we keep a staunch faith and strong love in our relationships, then I am sure we can cross all the hurdles. We’ll be able to defeat the dark clouds of ego, anger, jealousy and hatred with our power of love. Whilst, any negative qualities arouse in your relationships, always remember the immortality, loving, blissful qualities of love that is shining through the soul of each one of us in this world. From now on, let’s ignore the negative traits of a human and love unconditionally without any ambiguousness. Just the way a mother loves her children, ignoring the tantrums and naughtiness of her children. Every human being is ‘Divine’ at the core, since ALLAH as the ‘Super Soul’ resides in our hearts, from where the ocean of love flows and blesses us with the drops of love. I believe that, ALLAH is seated in everyone’s heart. We just have to discover Him.

The memory of true love never dies. I would say after such long a period of time we get to a place we can tolerate the pain if we lose someone we love. But the memories will never die, we may not talk about it as much but sometimes when we're alone we unlock the heart and pull out those memories, knowing that it was a special love, sometimes to special for us to share with anyone else. It's a good thing to know that once you really did love someone & they loved you and it was beautiful. Is that enough? For some it is!!

True Love never dies .If love ends, and then it was not true. True love is unconditional. It does not matter what the other person does, or whether the other person returns the love. Love can change from platonic to romantic and back. There are many different kinds of love, and transforming between kinds is not an ending but a natural progression. True love never ends.

“Not even death can stop True Love".

This I dedicate to you TEDDY

The moment we first met, I knew deep in my Heart; We were destined to be together, and never to be apart...

You have given my life a new meaning, just when I thought All was Gone;
You Captured my heart with your Kindness, and assured me that I would never be alone...

Our hearts were bonded together, as we Travelled and Ventured through life;
And my heart almost stopped beating, when you waved me goodbye…

Now, again with a second chance, Love came through the eyes as a wonderful surprise.

My heart again almost stopped beating, when you asked me to be your Wife...

I don't know how it got so crazy, but I'll do anything to set things right

Cause your love is so amazing, you’re the best thing in my life

Let me prove my love is real, Make you feel the way I feel
I promise I would give the world for you because we know in our hearts, we will never be parted,
For Our Love is as Strong as Ever......................................................................................................

Women are always beautiful

God said: "When I made the woman she had to be special.

I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort. I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children.

I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining. I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly.

I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart. I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly

And finally, I gave her a Tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed."

You see my son," said God, "The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."

This is to all the Phenomenal Women in my life, Mums, Friends & Sisters and Myself.

Happy Women's day!!!

I Love You

On Valentine's Day we think of those
Who make our lives worthwhile,
Those gracious, friendly people who
We think of with a smile.

I think of you, Mom;
I love you really a lot.
In my life that’s full of many good things,
You’re the very best thing I’ve got!


It’s Valentine’s Day, so I want to say,
I’m the luckiest kid anywhere;
You’re the sweetest, greatest, best mom around
And I want you to know I care!


Happy Valentine’s Day, Mom!

For the Rest of My Life

I praise Allah for sending me you my love
You found me home and sail with me
And I'm here with you
Now let me let you know
You've opened my heart
I was always thinking that love was wrong
But everything was changed when you came along
OOOOO
And there's a couple words I want to say
For the rest of my life
I'll be with you
I'll stay by your side honest and true
Till the end of my time
I'll be loving you. loving you
For the rest of my life
Thru days and night
I'll thank Allah for open my eyes
Now and forever I I'll be there for you
I know that deep in my heart
I feel so blessed when I think of you
And I ask Allah to bless all we do
You're my wife and my friend and my strength
And I pray we're together eternally
Now I find myself so strong
Everything changed when you came along
OOOO
And there's a couple word I want to say
For the rest of my life
I'll be with you
I'll stay by your side honest and true
Till the end of my time
I'll be loving you. loving you
For the rest of my life
Thru days and night
I'll thank Allah for open my eyes
Now and forever I I'll be there for you
I know that deep in my heart now that you're here
Infront of me I strongly feel love
And I have no doubt
And I'm singing loud that I'll love you eternally
For the rest of my life
I'll be with you
I'll stay by your side honest and true
Till the end of my time
I'll be loving you.loving you
For the rest of my life
Thru days and night
I'll thank Allah for open my eyes
Now and forever I I'll be there for you
I know that deep in my heart

Enjoy The Kashmiri Music

Evanescence - My Immortal

I'm so tired of being here
Suppressed by all my childish fears
And if you have to leave
I wish that you would just leave
'Cause your presence still lingers here
And it won't leave me alone

These wounds won't seem to heal
This pain is just too real
There's just too much that time cannot erase

When you cried I'd wipe away all of your tears
When you'd scream I'd fight away all of your fears
And I held your hand through all of these years
But you still have
All of me

You used to captivate me
By your resonating life
Now I'm bound by the life you've left behind
Your face it haunts
My once pleasant dreams
Your voice it chased away
All the sanity in me

I've tried so hard to tell myself that you're gone
But though you're still with me
I've been alone all along

Maybe

If I had one single wish
I'd go back to the moment I kissed
You goodbye No matter how hard I tried
But I can't live without you in my life

Maybe you'll say you still want me
Maybe you'll say that you don't
Maybe we said it was over
Baby I can't let you go

I walk around, try to understand
Where we went wrong and I can't pretend
It wasn't me, it wasn't you
But I'm convinced, we gave up too soon

Maybe you'll say you still want me
Maybe you'll say that you don't
Maybe we said it was over
Baby I can't let you go

Nothing left to lose after losing you
There's nothing I can't take
And when I run to you, when I come for you
Tell me I'm too late

Maybe you'll say you still want me
Maybe you'll say that you don't
Maybe we said it was over
Baby I can't let you go

No, no, no can't let you go
No can't let you go
No can't let you go
No can't let you go

Her only wish

Once there was a girl with a heart so pure. She brought light to the people on her shore.As bright as day she still had doubt tangled inside her never to come out.On her final plead she was given an angel to help deminish her evil.He gave her his light for that very cold night.Together they became one, a light so bright, shining through the night strong and tight.

Though the world around her started to change. People would challenge his and her fate.She stalled for a moment to think so quick. When another lady stole him and ditched.Back in the dark silence of her night she realized why she had no more light.

In the distance she saw it gleam holding another gently. Growing weaker, heart slowly dieing that distance light suddenly revived her.Realized why she was given this chance. Not to take his love away but to love him in another way.

She learned her strength her light came from him, to see him happy was her only wish.